Saturday, April 13, 2013

It’s the Journey, Not the Destination


It all started with a funny thought to literally do “temple run” in Angkor Wat. It was early January of this year when I, with my travel buddies, then decided to have an Easter Escapade in Siem Reap, Cambodia. Technically, we booked our flights months ago without expecting anything -- no specific itinerary, though I did a little research a week before our flight. I learned that Cambodia is very laidback and that it is very hot and humid in Siem Reap. Here below is how our journey had been.

The Flight Must Go On.
We got stressed/nervous right before our flight to Siem Reap. Everything was going too well until my attention was called because airport workers have found gun bullets in one of our check-in suitcases. True enough, they belong to Christian “Inay” Cabalza. They were not his. He just borrowed the luggage. He was asked to make a letter shortly during boarding and made it in the nick of time. Lesson learned: check your bags before entering the airport. Inay was able to fly with us.

Deplaning.
After more than 3 hours of travel time, we finally arrived in Siem Reap. The moment we deplaned, we felt that it was hot. Hotter than our very own Philippines! The airport was not remarkable, though I’ve seen a big statue of an elephant and pictures of the majestic Angkor Wat, which were displayed elsewhere. I found no Money Changer which I find very strange. Surprisingly (and conveniently), primary currency used in Cambodia is US Dollars. It is equally acceptable as their national currency, Cambodian Riel.

Pub Street.
Right after we secured our stuff in Angkor Riviera Hotel, our official home when we were in Siem Reap, we explored around the vicinity. First stop was the Pub Street. This is the busiest street in Siem Reap, especially at night. Locals and tourists were all there for night gimmick. It was a beer night for us, documented by lots of self-captured group photos. Second and last nights were also spent at this happy street.

Gad Around Siem Reap.
First morning in Siem Reap and so we started it by trying out the hotel’s Intercontinental breakfast buffet. The food was great! We then decided to go out, find a convenience store, mall perhaps, and shop a little. To our surprise, we found only one mall that sells not-our-type stuff. There were a few boutiques, mostly local ones, but also not our type. So we instead tried looking for a fastfood where we can have our lunch. Lucky to have found KFC! They serve food different from what we have here. Gravy has extra charge, OMG! We headed back to the hotel and scheduled for a boat ride to Tonle Sap River. There we found a floating market. To be honest, I didn’t like it very much. I’ve seen it in Thailand and I liked it way better!

Temple Tour.
The most exciting part of this trip was the temple tour. It was hot and we all got sweaty but it was fun! We do not want to feel temple-burnout so we opted to just go and see only three: Angkor Wat (UNESCO cultural heritage), Ta Prohm Temple (home of the giant roots, where Tomb Raider was shot), and Bayon Temple (temple of the smiling gods). I love its intricate carvings and how they looked so aged which shows rich history.

The People.
Khmer = Cambodian. It’s like Pinoy = Filipino. In general, Khmer are very friendly. They speak English well in Chinese accent but in softer tone. They were smiling most of the time and in my observation, they do not rush things. No one is in a hurry! If you ordered for something, they will do it at their own slow pace.

The Food.
As compared to Philippines, food in Cambodia is cheaper, whether in a hotel or in any streetside, without compromising the taste. I enjoyed eating all the food I tried, especially they were extra spicy. The highlight of the food we ate in Siem Reap was the Happy Pizza that after finishing a slice, you will feel happy because of the secret ingredient. Don’t judge us. If you know what I’m saying, it’s legal in Cambodia. Besides, it’s medicinal!

Haggle! Haggle!
Everything in Cambodia is unreasonably priced. So if you want a ride, haggle! You want a food/drink, haggle! You want to buy this and that, haggle! If there is a country where you must be good in haggling, Cambodia is the place to be. Khmer overpriced anything they sell/offer so it is important to bargain.

The Fly Back.
Though we enjoyed our stay in Siem Reap, this is our very first time to feel so excited about flying back to the Philippines. Usually, it was hard to leave the place we visit, but this time, we almost jump of excitement when we saw the plane that will bring us back to the country where we call home. I appreciate Philippines all the more after this recent trip. Truly, there’s no place like home! We gotta love our own!

I can't share everything that happened in Cambodia. Overall, our Easter escapade in Siem Reap was super fun. The bad parts were all part of the trip. The place may have not reach the level of our expectations and we say, that was a “humbling journey,” but who cares? All we need is to be with a happy group and each must have a clear mindset of charging everything to experience! So to my travel buddies, thanks for the memories and the experiences, and everything in between. I am looking forward to our 7th country to visit!

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Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Nothing Has Changed


I was fixing my stuff the other day and found my yearbook. I can’t help but browse its pages. I miss my friends, the stresses of a student, the good times, etc., my college life! Then I saw me. Wow, nothing much has changed! Except maybe physically – I look older now, but healthier!

Perhaps you might be interested to what was written on my page. I personally wrote it in year 2008 and thought of it is worth sharing now, after 5 years! So here it goes…

“I hate fake righteous people! I’d rather be with those dreadful group, as long as they are real, than to mingle with the wrong angel. I used to be everyone’s enemy but incidents made me realize not to. I guess I love learning things the hard way! I appreciate life to the fullest and what the world has to offer. These may be the reasons why I am at peace with myself, but not the world. Regardless of those things, I am forever grateful to God, for giving me loving parents and relatives, for sending me unfailingly supporting friends, granting me countless blessings, and for guiding me through every mile. After I graduate and pass the board exams, my diagnosis to myself is, HIGH RISK TO SUCCESS RELATED TO INNATE INTELLIGENCE, ATTITUDE and SKILLS with EXCEPTIONAL CHARM. (That’s the spirit!)”

I'm amazed that years may have passed, but I still have the same thoughts and feelings. Let's see in the next 5 years. Hopefully, I already reached that "success" I was referring to!

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Monday, March 18, 2013

Morning Fuel

I am a big fan of having breakfast after waking up in the morning. I used to skip it when I was younger, but by doing so, it just made me weak and frail and thereafter I was not able to do the tasks expected to be accomplished at the end of the day.

Breakfast is our morning fuel. It gives us the necessary energy that would sustain us throughout the day. Without it, our concentration and mood also get compromised.

That's why I supported the campaign initiated by McDonald's Philippines for having the country's very first National Breakfast Day. They gave away Egg McMuffins for the first 1,000 customers per branch. That would be close to 300,000 free McMuffins nationwide.



I am looking forward to having the same program in the future. This way, we could educate people the importance of having breakfast before a stressful day ahead. Hooray to all the people behind this drive!

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Sunday, February 24, 2013

Walking Contradiction

In my 25 years of existence, there are things about myself that I cannot explain. These are stuff that though I know myself very well, I find it hard to define and justify. Below are some that I recall and sure I know, there are still more:

* I find the pleasure in feasting on lots of food, but I hate gaining weight.
* I'm at my happiest during paydays, but I wish I was earning by resting.
* I enjoy sleeping, rest & relaxation, but not the fact that much of my time was spent.
* I love working out but I almost curse my gym trainer.
* I like going to the beach, but I dislike getting tan.
* I enjoy a cold breeze, but not when the temperature extremely drops.
* I am an introvert person at home, but extrovert once outside.
* I love dressing up, but I am a homebody in nature.
* Fashion is my passion, but I don't like spending much for it.
* I like hearing stories and gossips, but I hate it when I am the subject.
* My life is very private, but I share my thoughts and feelings publicly through Twitter.
* I love travelling and going to places I've never been to, but not when I get lost.
* I'm not a fan of taking risks, but I was a "sure ball" risk-taker.
* I have been wanting to save money, but I want to shop, too.

Funny or weird I may seem, it could be nature versus nurture, but I'm proud of what I was, am and will become.

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Sunday, December 30, 2012

2012 In A Nutshell

Wow! Time really flies so fast! It feels like we just celebrated a new year and here we are now, about to welcome another year. I just can't believe a year has already passed!

Looking back to the days and months of 2012, I must admit, it had been tough on me. I was unemployed at the beginning of the year, I hardly can find a job and the expenses were ongoing. Our house was sold to a developer, we needed to relocate from Mandaluyong to ParaƱaque. Can you just imagine leaving the place you grew up with your entire life, saying goodbye to your friends, relatives, the environment. Oh wow, I don't even know how I was able to adapt to our new home! Towards almost third quarter and the end of 2012, I suffered from different kinds of pain --physical pain, toothache, and emotional trauma after my bag was stolen away from me. Geez, I lost my cards, IDs, iPhone, camera, etc. A lot money flew just like that!

But hey, let's not focus on the negative things. I am a firm believer that there is a balance for everything. If I experienced all those awful things, there were also awesome ones. Lots of it actually.

Career. I started working again as a Company Nurse sometime in May. Lucky to have been working with the people I used to work with. In October, I engaged myself with a small-type of business. Glad that so far, it prospers way higher than what I envisioned. Don't call me businessman but an entrepreneur!

Hobbies. In March, I kept my passion burning. I began writing again and share it online through this blogsite. I was able to make my own version of Calamansi muffin. You could ask me for the recipe. I tried to become adventurous and try different things like playing billiards, basketball, wall-climbing and ziplining. I am looking forward for more active activities to the coming year.

Travels. In January, I was able to visit Vigan, where I met some of our relatives. In August, I went back to Singapore for a holiday. That was the first out-of-the-country trip of our family. Then I was able to go back for the third time in Boracay, where I also enjoyed the company of my college friends sometime in September. Of course there were other trips to nearby places like Laguna, Antipolo, Tagaytay, et al.

Love. It's always there throughout the year. Still no romantic love but I have abundant love from my family, friends, God. To feel you are accepted, appreciated, and blessed, that's more than enough love. I couldn't ask for more.

So to you, 2012, I want to thank you. Thanks for all the changes, travels, learnings, and experiences whether good or bad. There were ups and downs, pains and joys, but look at me, I am standing still no matter what. I don't know what's gonna happen this 2013 but whatever it might and could be, I know it will be an even more exciting and a better year.


Cheers to 2013 and may we all have a prosperous and harmonious brand new year ahead!

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Saturday, December 22, 2012

Secret Santa

It’s that time of the year when it isn’t our birthday, yet, we receive surprise gifts and wonderful presents. Sure, it’s Christmastime!

In the spirit of gift-giving, my officemates and I organized our very first Kris Kringle. We did not plan to make it extravagant. Just simple enough to celebrate the season.

The categories per week were the following, with the gifts I received from my Secret Santa:

Week 1: something that describes your Santa Baby -- a dark chocolate bar (am i bittersweet?)
Week 2: something boxed-up -- a box of Nesvita
Week 3: something random & weird -- a concealer
Week 4: something annoying yet funny -- an eyeliner
Week 5: something Christmassy -- candy cane
Grand: something your Santa Baby likes -- to unwrap on Christmas Day + the gifts I got from
my workmates

Too bad my Secret Santa revealed that I was her Santa Baby the day before the first gift-giving. Supposedly, revelation is done at the end or during the last gift-giving day. I admit, it reduced the amount of excitement, but the enthusiasm never faded away. Each week, I was looking forward to the gifts my “Secret Santa” prepared and wrapped for me.

As a token of appreciation for all the gifts that Secret Santa gave, Santa Baby then returns the generosity of Secret Santa by giving a "thank you gift."

I know that this was our practice long before when we were still studying. But no matter how many times we do it, it is still fun and exciting -- from overthinking who's our Secret Santa, to what gift to buy, to how to wrap it. It's always fun! At the end of the whole gift-giving thingy, we learned that it feels good to give, whether it's small or big, expensive or cheap. It's the thought that matters! Now we know why Santa Claus loves giving presents!

Speaking of him, thanks to the real-life Santa Claus (officemates) for coming early to town! These gifts make me feel like a kiddo guessing what's inside!

Have yourself a merry little Christmas!

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Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Real-life Halloween


Sorry for my late posting. I know it’s almost end of November yet I would like to share this experience I will never forget. October 30, 2012. It was an awesome day in the office because we threw an event and it was called “Halloween Fair,” in which I dressed up like Russell (from the movie, Up). Sad to admit, but that very day, it ended so awful. I first encountered riding a jeepney with a bad guy. By bad guy, I mean a person with an evil mind and doing things illegally to survive. I was a victim. My bag was stolen from me -- my iphone, wallet, Ids, cards, and other stuff with sentimental value, included. My hands were shaking. I cannot move my feet. I wanted to shout but no voice was coming out. All I knew was to immobilize. I should not make an action to retrieve my bag. I might just put my life in danger.

When I got home, I called the banks to put my cards on hold. Then it dawned on me. I lost almost everything important to me. What’s worst was that I even saw the face of the bad guy. I get goose bumps everytime I remember his appearance. I guess I still have trauma up to this writing!

The thought of them roaming around among us scares me. I feel sad that they exist. I feel bad that they are moving freely outside. I’m afraid that others could be their next victim – it could be you, our friends, family, relatives, or any of us. I may sound unforgiving but I want justice of what he did to me. I hope one day I see him again... behind bars!

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